My Influence on Others
I think sometimes I take too small of a view on the way that my words and actions will influence others. I have been talking more lately about being brave and not letting my fears be the master of my life. I need to live my life NOW because it is the only one that I have, and I can't wait for someday. Since I've started doing this I've noticed an inordinate amount of bold- ballsy actions from my friends. People are speaking to guys they like, quitting their jobs, and going back to school. This is a qute from Greg that illustrates the power that I wield over all in my sphere of influence:
"Carrie then offered this wonderful piece of insight: "You don't tell others what to think or feel, you make them realize what they already feel." Wow. I realized that not only is that an amazing compliment, it is also one of my biggest objectives when talking to people. I think that this revelation may be what it takes to get me back into school and into a career of counseling. After every one of my friends and family have tried to get me back into school (I really appreciate it, honestly), it may be that this one insight turns everything around... huh..."
All hail Queen Carrie!!
Seriously though, this does show me the care that I- and everyone- need to take when it comes to advice that we give others, and even our life view that we show to those around us. It really is so true that our attitude needs to be "the same as Christ."
(Edited Later because I sound like an egomaniac)
I just have to say that I know that it isn't all about me. My friends are making some bold moves for themselves, not because of me.
I think sometimes I take too small of a view on the way that my words and actions will influence others. I have been talking more lately about being brave and not letting my fears be the master of my life. I need to live my life NOW because it is the only one that I have, and I can't wait for someday. Since I've started doing this I've noticed an inordinate amount of bold- ballsy actions from my friends. People are speaking to guys they like, quitting their jobs, and going back to school. This is a qute from Greg that illustrates the power that I wield over all in my sphere of influence:
"Carrie then offered this wonderful piece of insight: "You don't tell others what to think or feel, you make them realize what they already feel." Wow. I realized that not only is that an amazing compliment, it is also one of my biggest objectives when talking to people. I think that this revelation may be what it takes to get me back into school and into a career of counseling. After every one of my friends and family have tried to get me back into school (I really appreciate it, honestly), it may be that this one insight turns everything around... huh..."
All hail Queen Carrie!!
Seriously though, this does show me the care that I- and everyone- need to take when it comes to advice that we give others, and even our life view that we show to those around us. It really is so true that our attitude needs to be "the same as Christ."
(Edited Later because I sound like an egomaniac)
I just have to say that I know that it isn't all about me. My friends are making some bold moves for themselves, not because of me.
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